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How To Thrive During Perimenopause

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Have you been feeling … off? 🫠 Maybe your cycle isn’t as predictable. You’re waking up in the middle of the night. Your mood feels different. Your skin is changing. Your hair feels thinner. You’re tired even when you sleep. 


And when you bring it up to your doctor, they say everything “looks normal.” If that sounds familiar, you may be entering perimenopause. 


Perimenopause is the hormonal transition before menopause that many women experience in their late 30s and 40s. For Black and Brown women, this transition often starts earlier and can feel more intense. Yet we’re less likely to receive clear guidance or culturally informed care. 


That's why we’re here to help you understand what’s happening and support you in caring for your body with intention and confidence.

What Is perimenopause and when does it start?

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Perimenopause is the phase leading up to menopause, when estrogen and progesterone levels begin to fluctuate and decline. It’s not a single moment. It’s a transition that can last years to a decade or more. 


Many women assume menopause happens overnight, but perimenopause can begin 8 to 10 years before your final period. That means symptoms can start as early as your late 30s or early 40s. For Brown and Black women, research shows menopause often occurs earlier and symptoms may last longer. Many also report more severe hot flashes, sleep disruption, and mood changes.


Hormones influence nearly every system in the body - from metabolism and sleep to mood and skin health. So when they begin shifting, the ripple effects can show up everywhere.

Common Symptoms - Including The Ones No One Talks About 🫠

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Perimenopause symptoms can feel unpredictable because hormone levels are constantly fluctuating. Some of the most common perimenopause symptoms include:


  • Irregular periods
  • Heavier or lighter bleeding
  • Hot flashes or night sweats
  • Anxiety or mood swings
  • Brain fog
  • Sleep disruption
  • Low libido
  • Vaginal dryness
  • Fatigue
  • Weight redistribution
  • Hair thinning
  • Skin dryness and/or hyperpigmentation

For melanated women, hormonal shifts can worsen concerns like melasma, dark spots, and inflammation. Many also notice scalp changes, increased shedding, or slower regrowth in textured, curly, and coily hair.

Bloodwork Guide - Labs To Ask Your Doctor For

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If you suspect perimenopause, comprehensive labs can help provide clarity. Many women are told everything is “normal” because only basic blood panels are run. Here’s a more complete list you can discuss with to your healthcare provider.


Hormone Panel

  • Estradiol
  • Progesterone
  • Follicle Stimulating Hormone (FSH)
  • Luteinizing Hormone 
  • (LH)Testosterone - total and free
  • DHEA-S
  • Sex Hormone Binding Globulin (SHBG)

Thyroid Panel

  • TSH
  • Free T3
  • Reverse T3
  • Free T4
  • Thyroid antibodies - TPO and TgAb

Nutrient + Metabolic Markers

  • Vitamin D3 - 25 Hydroxy
  • Vitamin B12
  • Folate
  • Ferritin
  • Full iron panel
  • Magnesium
  • Zinc
  • HbA1c
  • Fasting glucose
  • Fasting insulin
  • Lipid panel

These labs can reveal hormone shifts, nutrient deficiencies, thyroid dysfunction, or insulin resistance - all of which can overlap with perimenopause symptoms, especially in women with existing hormonal imbalances, thyroid problems or PCOS.

Vitamins and Nutrients During Perimenopause

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As hormone levels fluctuate, your body’s nutrient needs change too. Supporting your system with bioavailable vitamins can make a meaningful difference in how you feel day to day.


Vitamin D3

This is one of the most important nutrients during perimenopause, especially for Black and Brown women. Because melanin filters UVB rays, it reduces how much sunlight the skin can absorb, making it harder for melanated skin to produce adequate Vitamin D levels.

Vitamin D levels can also decline during perimenopause as estrogen decreases, which impacts how the body produces, activates, and utilizes it. Low levels during this stage are linked to bone density loss and may contribute to symptoms like mood changes, fatigue, and more intense hot flashes. It can also have a huge impact on hair health and hair shedding.


Vitamin D supplementation supports:

  • Bone density
  • Mood balance
  • Immune health
  • Hormone health
  • Skin and hair health

Methylated B Vitamins

B vitamins play a major role during perimenopause because they support energy production, nervous system function, and the body’s stress response. As estrogen begins to fluctuate and decline, many women notice increased fatigue, brain fog, irritability, and mood shifts - all areas where B vitamins are deeply involved.


Hormonal changes can also affect how efficiently the body utilizes certain B vitamins, particularly B12 and folate. In addition, chronic stress, poor sleep, gut absorption issues, and common medications like birth control or acid blockers can further deplete B vitamin levels over time.


Methylated forms like methylcobalamin B12 and methylfolate are considered more bioavailable, meaning the body can use them more easily without needing additional conversion steps. This is especially important for women with MTHFR gene variants, which can impair the body’s ability to convert vitamins into their active form.


B Vitamins help support:

  • Energy production
  • Mental clarity and focus
  • Nervous system regulation
  • Mood balance
  • Hormone health

Because B vitamins are water soluble and not stored in large amounts, consistent intake through diet or supplementation becomes even more important during hormonal transitions like perimenopause.



Magnesium

Magnesium becomes especially important during perimenopause because it plays a key role in regulating the nervous system, sleep cycles, and the body’s stress response. As estrogen declines, many women experience heightened anxiety, disrupted sleep, muscle tension, and increased cortisol levels - all areas magnesium helps regulate.


Hormonal fluctuations can also impact magnesium levels. Chronic stress, poor sleep, blood sugar instability, and increased inflammation can all deplete magnesium stores over time. Many women enter perimenopause already deficient without realizing it.


Magnesium helps support:

  • Sleep quality and relaxation
  • Nervous system regulation
  • Mood stability
  • Muscle recovery
  • Blood sugar balance

Because magnesium is involved in hundreds of reactions in the body, maintaining adequate levels can make a noticeable difference in how grounded and rested you feel day to day. Some women also find magnesium helpful for tension headaches, PMS-like symptoms that continue during perimenopause and nighttime restlessness.


Omega-3 Fatty Acids

Omega-3 fatty acids are essential fats that support hormone signaling, inflammation balance, and brain health. During perimenopause, fluctuating estrogen levels can impact mood, cardiovascular health, and metabolic function - all areas where omega-3s provide meaningful support.


Estrogen acts as a protective shield for the heart in pre-menopausal women. It helps keep blood vessels flexible, reduces inflammation, supports healthy cholesterol balance by maintaining higher HDL and lower LDL levels, and helps prevent plaque buildup in the arteries. As estrogen begins to decline during perimenopause and menopause, that cardiovascular protection decreases, which can increase long-term heart disease risk.


Omega-3s help fill this gap by supporting anti-inflammatory pathways, vascular health, and lipid balance during this hormonal transition. Many women also notice improvements in skin dryness and inflammation when omega-3 intake increases.


Omega-3 Fatty Acids help support:

  • Heart and circulatory health
  • Mood and emotional regulation
  • Brain function
  • Joint comfort
  • Skin hydration and elasticity

Because our bodies cannot produce omega-3s on its own, intake through fatty fish, algae sources, or supplementation becomes even more important during perimenopause.


Essential Minerals (Zinc, Selenium, Copper)

Minerals can play a critical role during perimenopause. As hormone levels fluctuate, systems like thyroid function, hair growth, skin health, and immune balance all become more sensitive to nutrient and mineral imbalances.


  • Zinc plays a central role in hormone regulation, immune function, tissue repair and hair health. Zinc supports hair follicle strength and scalp health, which is especially relevant for textured, curly, and coily hair that may become more fragile as hormones change. It also supports skin healing and inflammation, which can influence breakouts, sensitivity, and overall skin texture.
  • Selenium is an antioxidant that supports immune resilience and metabolism. It also plays an important role in thyroid function, which can become more sensitive as estrogen levels decline. Because the thyroid helps regulate metabolism, energy levels, and temperature balance, maintaining adequate selenium intake can support overall stability during this phase.
  • Copper is another essential mineral that supports connective tissue health, collagen formation, and iron metabolism. It works in tandem with zinc to maintain proper mineral balance in the body and supports the production of healthy red blood cells.

Get The Vitamins You Need

Daily Essentials were formulated with the vitamins, nutrients and probiotics your body needs during perimenopause. This 5-in-1 multivitamin includes high-dose vitamin d3, methylated b12 and folate, five strains of probiotics and adaptogens like Lion's Mane mushrooms.

Small Changes = BIG Relief

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In addition to increasing your vitamin and nutrient intake, there are several lifestyle shifts that can help ease perimenopause symptoms and support your body through this transition. 


Prioritize Consistent Sleep

Hormones regulate your circadian rhythm, which controls when you feel awake and when you feel tired. As estrogen and progesterone fluctuate, sleep disruption becomes more common. To support better rest:

  • Aim for consistent bed and wake times
  • Reduce screen time at night
  • Keep your bedroom cool and dark
  • Create a wind-down routine like stretching, reading, or herbal tea

Incorporate Strength Training

As estrogen declines, bone density and muscle mass naturally begin to decrease. Strength training helps counteract this shift by supporting bone strength, metabolic health, and insulin sensitivity. This doesn’t have to mean intense workouts. It can include:

  • Weight training
  • Resistance bands
  • Pilates or barre
  • Bodyweight exercises

Balance Blood Sugar

Blood sugar and hormones are closely connected. Estrogen helps regulate insulin sensitivity, so when it fluctuates, blood sugar swings can become more noticeable. To support blood sugar balance:

  • Prioritize protein at every meal
  • Pair carbohydrates with healthy fats or fiber
  • Avoid skipping meals
  • Limit high-sugar snacks on their own

Manage Stress Intentionally

Chronic stress increases cortisol, which can further disrupt your hormones and worsen symptoms like fatigue, anxiety, and insomnia. Support your nervous system with:

  • Breathwork or meditation
  • Walking or gentle movement
  • Journaling
  • Time in nature

Stay Connected to Community

Perimenopause can feel isolating. But many women in your life may be navigating the same changes quietly. Talking with friends, family, or trusted circles can:

  • Normalize your experience
  • Provide emotional support
  • Reduce anxiety around symptoms

PCOS & Hormonal Imbalances

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If you’ve been diagnosed with PCOS or a hormonal imbalance, perimenopause can feel more layered and often more challenging to navigate.


PCOS is already a condition rooted in hormone dysregulation, insulin resistance, and ovarian dysfunction. Many women spend years managing irregular cycles, androgen levels, metabolic shifts, and inflammation before perimenopause even begins. So when estrogen and progesterone start fluctuating on top of that, symptoms can feel amplified or harder to interpret.


As estrogen begins to decline, women with PCOS may notice additional perimenopause symptoms:

  • Increased hair thinning or shedding
  • Continued or worsening acne
  • Increased facial or body hair growth, also known as hirsutism
  • Rapid weight gain, especially in the midsection
  • Shifts in metabolism, insulin sensitivity and cholesterol
  • Heightened anxiety and depression

Because PCOS often involves elevated androgens, the hormonal transition into perimenopause can create overlapping signals. Some women may experience relief in certain symptoms, while others notice existing imbalances become more pronounced.


Insulin resistance, which is common in PCOS, can also worsen during perimenopause. Estrogen plays a role in glucose metabolism, so as levels decline, blood sugar regulation may feel less stable. Over time, this can increase metabolic risks already associated with PCOS, including type 2 diabetes and high cholesterol.


The transition may also overlap with thyroid or adrenal dysfunction, which share many of the same symptoms like fatigue, hair thinning, brain fog, and mood changes. This is why comprehensive testing becomes especially important for women with a history of hormonal imbalance.


When you have PCOS or existing hormonal imbalances, support during this phase often includes:

  • Expanded hormone and metabolic lab testing
  • Blood sugar support through nutrition and lifestyle
  • Targeted nutrients like Vitamin D, magnesium, and B vitamins
  • Stress management to support adrenal health

You Are Evolving 🤎

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Perimenopause isn’t the end, it’s simply a shift and a recalibration. 


Your body is asking for new support - more rest, more nutrients, more awareness of what it needs now. And for Black and Brown women, we also need support that is culturally informed and rooted in real understanding of our health risks.


The most important thing to remember is that you don’t have to navigate this alone. Have real, honest conversations with your friends. Ask your sisters, your coworkers, your group chats how they’re feeling. You might be surprised how many shared experiences come up.


There’s comfort in knowing you’re not alone. There’s power in being informed. And there’s peace in understanding what your body is doing.


Be gentle with yourself during this phase. Give your body what it’s asking for. And know that balance is still possible - you just may need a different approach than before. You’ve got this. And we’re right here with you!

References

Santoro N, Randolph JF.
“Reproductive Hormones and the Menopausal Transition.”
Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism (JCEM).
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26653408/


Santoro N, Randolph JF.
“Reproductive Hormones and the Menopausal Transition.”
Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism (JCEM).
https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/102/7/2218/3077280


Cleveland Clinic.
“Perimenopause: Overview, Symptoms, and Treatment.”
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/21608-perimenopause


Mayo Clinic Staff.
“Perimenopause: Symptoms and Causes.”
Mayo Clinic.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/perimenopause/symptoms-causes/syc-20354666


The Menopause Society.
“Perimenopause.”
Patient Education Resources.
https://menopause.org/patient-education/menopause-topics/perimenopause


Harvard Health Publishing.
“Outsmarting Perimenopause.”
Harvard Medical School.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/outsmarting-perimenopause

The author Ashley Harmon

The Author : Ashley Haron

Ashley Harmon is the Founder & CEO of Mela Vitamins. A Taurus who thrives in sunny LA, Ashley spends her days building a more inclusive wellness industry and her evenings at the beach with her husband and goldendoodle Hendrix (yes, like Jimi). Inspired by her own struggles with vitamin D deficiency and PCOS, she’s on a mission to center Black women in the wellness conversation. Reach out to connect, because wellness is a journey we can take together!

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